Bisexual male swinger Cooper Beckett on life as a swinger

For my latest Philadelphia City Paper column I wrote about swinging. Official title: "Swingers are speaking out and changing the traditional rules" (this column is definitely the one where I'm given the longest titles I've ever had!). If you're in Philadelphia, check it out in print every week. I profiled Cooper Beckett of Life on the Swingset and his new book My Life on the Swingset, and we discussed negotiating, jealousy, how the TV show Hannibal is part of his relationship rules, swinger stereotypes and more. He will also be on my CatalystCon panel Sharing Your Sex Life on the Page and the Stage on March 28th from 9:30- a.m. in Arlington, Virginia. As always, I welcome your suggestions for future columns! Email rachelkb at gmail.com with "City Paper" in the subject line.

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Talking erotica parties, sexy writing, audio erotica and more on podcast Life on the Swingset

I got to chat with 3 of the 4 the smart, sexy, awesome hosts of podcast Life on the Swingset, Ginger, Technogeisha and Dylan (sadly, Cooper couldn't make it but he is fabulous too) about all sorts of topics related to erotica, from writing and reading to narrating it and much more. Look at how cute they are:


Ginger


Dylan


Technogeisha

It's a wonderful podcast and I love that they are hosting a November trip to resort Desire in Cancun, Mexico. I was honored to be part of this intimate discussion in which I learned a lot about the impact of erotica and even got an idea for how to use erotica as entertainment. Happy listening!