Sex toys, condo sex and marijuana

All this and more in this week's sex diary. I edit the weekly series and am always looking for new diarists, in NYC and not in NYC, so if you're interested (yes, it pays), email me at sexdiaries at nymag.com and tell me a little about you and why you want to be diarist, as well as your age, gender, location, occupation, sexual orientation and relationship status and I'll send you more information. Feel free to pass this on. Thanks!