Yes, I said it. And yes, I do still write about sex once in a while. For Jewcy. Though I hope it's also clear that I'm not saying that's the #1 (or even 2 or 3) thing I look for. It's not, but if I had to choose, I have a strong preference. And while it was outside the scope of my essay, I have had a really great time with the uncircumcised men I've been with, and there were also other things going on that didn't involve penises (okay, yes, spanking and such). I'll shut up now and let you read the essay. If you want to comment on Jewcy (or here), that would be swell. I was seriously tempted to go the pseudonym route here too (see rebuttal), but I didn't, though I did revise a few details that I had overzealously added. Writing is, well, a challenge, especially writing about sex, and its potential impact on one's life, and it's a challenge I haven't quite puzzled out yet. Still working on that.
I’m not a man and am never going to be one, so I can’t speak to the experience of having a penis, but I can speak as someone who enjoys the sexual pleasures they can offer her. Being aroused by a lover happens not just when you’re together, but when you’re not. If the sex is good, it leaves you wanting more. It leaves you cooking up naughty scenes in your head. When you masturbate, he's right there with you, the memory of his body so vivid it’s almost like the real thing, at least for me. If a guy’s cock turns me off, I won't spend my free time fantasizing about it, even if the man himself makes me melt. It’s tough when I want to kiss every part of him but his penis.
Do also read Esther Goldberg's rebuttal, "Foreskins: bring 'em"
Also, like most girls, I am bad at giving hand jobs, and it's easier to jerk off someone whose dick-skin isn't already stretched tight as a drum.
As for the contention that uncircumcised penises are somehow uglier than circumcised ones, I guess I sort of understand where Rachel is coming from. A flaccid uncut dick can seem uncomfortably reminiscent of a sea cucumber or a shar-pei. But you know what? It's a penis, not a painting in an art museum. It's not there to be stared at for hours and admired, it's there to bone you. And also, once it's erect, it's usually hard to tell a circumcised from an uncircumcised penis, unless there is serious turtleneckage going on.
My question to you readers: Are most girls bad at giving hand jobs?