Mr. Skin and Adult Friend Finder interviews with me!

It's apparently my day to be a media whore...

Mr. Skin phone interview with me (this one we did a few months ago but it just went up)

What subject is closest to reality with you? What do you like in your sex life?

I’m a little bit of a voyeur, but it’s not necessarily the biggest thing. I’d say probably spanking. I’m into spanking, but I don’t do it all that often and I won’t always do it, but usually when I do it I get really into it.

And then with She’s on Top and He’s on Top, I really don’t have anything that is the biggest or that I’m more into. I’m probably more of a bottom than a top. I’ve done both and I could get into both, but I think what I saw with She’s on Top and He’s on Top, even though they’re telling the top story like their point of view, I think if you’re a bottom you could also get off from the top’s point of view.

So I think from a lot of these things like, say you’re into spanking but you’re not into being spanked, you can still read a story about someone being spanked and get into it because you can look at is as the point of view of the person you are spanking. And I think with erotica it’s not so much of a person being into that thing but more of how the person tells a story.

(thanks to Alix of We Could Be Naked for doing the interview!)

And this is the interview at Adult Friend Finder (needless to say NSFW! though as a friend remarked, nothing on this blog should be taken as safe for work to be on the safe side) by someone I slept with way back in 2001 ("Colonel Lingus"), and might be making a baby with one of these days...I'll let his highly unique intro speak for itself:

The first time I saw bodacious Brooklyn babe Rachel Kramer Bussel, it was 2001 and the author/editor/sex educator had come to stay a week at the palatial estate I shared with fellow writer Cara Bruce. One day while Cara was away at work, we banged. It was magic. Unfortunately, she was far more interested in some douchebag colleague of mine, but that's a story for another time.

In the years since, Bussel's reputation, notoriety, kudos, and credentials have blossomed, due to her unique, clever literary voice, sex-positive, post-feminist sensibilities ... did I mention she's got great tits? Anyway, she's contributed to more than 100 anthologies...

And then the awesome Judy McGuire interviewed me for her Seattle Weekly Dategirl column entitled "Help! I'm Sleeping With an Almost-Monk:"

Rachel goes on to say, "If you want rough sex, or even slightly kinky sex, you're going to have to guide him down that road. You can start with your mouth."

Heh.

"No, not like that—by talking dirty," she clarifies. "Try to verbalize what you want, but without comparing him to past lovers. Instead of, 'I loved it when my ex tied me up,' you could say, 'Hold down my arms'; and when he does it, encourage him to keep moving in that direction."

That concludes today's media whoring. I should have some interviews by me coming up next week.