pretty feet and fishnets - I can't resist.

Ahem
Originally uploaded by Audacia Ray.

Technically, I guess, it's "pretty foot and fishnet" but I don't like the way that sounds. I don't even really have a foot fetish but this photo is just so damn hot. I do have a fishnet fetish as anyone who's seen me, well, ever, should know.

From Audacia Ray, who I assume is the one sporting the foot and fishnets, with Bella Vendetta.

In other news, at the gym today I squatted with 100 pounds on my back! Was super fun too, about the only thing I really, really like. A lot of the other exercises we do I'm all, "I can't, I can't" and I totally, shamelessly take advantage of the fact that Allison is my friend and trainer. But it's an awesome feeling and I can't wait to do more. Coming up soon: dead lifts!

Other tidbits of information: should have some good book news soon (not Good Book, Rachel book), was interviewed for Robin Byrd's Speaking of Sex podcast (which I now see that my awesome friend Ellen Friedrichs was on recently!) podcast which deserves a whole sexy post to itself, I'm probably going to be speaking at Borders in June, and I'll be on Healthy Life Radio Network on Tuesday, May 22nd at 2 pm talking about BDSM and He’s on Top and She’s on Top.

One of the books I’m working on right now is Best Sex Writing 2008, which comes out this November and is shaping up really beautifully, although of course there will be plenty of great stuff I can’t include. If anyone has read anything super fabulous about sex and disability (ideally an article/journalistic take, not solely personal essay) and wants to pass that info along, please email me at bestsexwriting2008 at gmail.com – I’d like to include something about that topic, though I have a few ideas I still have to investigate. Anyway, nothing is finalized yet but here’s an early version of the catalog copy, just cause I’m super psyched about it⎯my first non-fiction book! (I don’t count true erotica in that category.)

Do Jewish girls give better blowjobs? What does it mean to be a modern-day eunuch? Does abstinence-only education work? Would you want to work in the Pink Ghetto or live in the glass closet? How “hung” are African-American men? What happens to a celebrity sex tape star in Iran? Best Sex Writing 2008 answers these questions (and raises many more) as it probes the inner lives of those on the front lines⎯political, personal, and cultural⎯of lust.

From dangerous dildos to professional submissives, the erotic appeal of twins, sex work, pornography and much more, these authors delve into the underbelly of eroticism.