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Monday, January 15, 2007

Assorted mostly sex linkage

January 22nd is the 34th anniversary of Roe v. Wade and also Blog for Choice Day

Judy McGuire wants to hear about your bad dates and dealbreakers (even if you don't have any, click through for the hilariously awful stories in the comments)

Is your BlackBerry Ruining Your Sex Life," Forbes (via Wall St. Folly via Elexa Sexy Smart)

As for me, I don't yet have a BlackBerry but my ex did and would check it right before and after sex and in the morning. I can't really say anything cause I do the same thing with my laptop, which sleeps with me in my bed, but I think it's different because I'm alone then so not slighting anyone (save for my Hello Kitty stuffed pillow)

The Sexerati Guide to Unpersonals by Lux Nightmare (Friendster vs. MySpace vs. Dodgeball)

Diary of the Dominatrix Next Door, Part 1, part of
SMITH Diaries (and if you have a burning story to tell via diary, click through and contact them)

A snippet:

In my regular client pool, I have many female clients, some gay, some straight. I also see a lot of couples. Sometimes I teach one partner how to dominate the other. Sometimes I dominate both partners. I even have a handful of gay, male masters who come to submit to me. But the truth still remains that the majority of my clients (and all sex industry clientele) are straight men (straight men who secretly want to suck cock, that is).

Ada Calhoun's not impressed with "The New Prudishness"

Smart feminist theorists such as Paul and Levy encourage us to think through the meaning and impact of sex in the culture. Hear, hear. I like thinking about that stuff, too. But once we've thought it through, even if we did agree that our culture is saturated with anti-woman sexuality, what do we do? Unplug the internet? Ban porn? Drop Catharine MacKinnon leaflets onto the beach at Spring Break?

No, the right-wingers and feminist academics — together again, as in Andrea Dworkin's day — offer no game plan. They just declare that the porn girls and the teen tramps and the pop stars, and all of us, everywhere, who find any of that appealing, should feel bad, dirty and humiliated about the most natural thing in the world, the one thing that unites the history of humankind: trying to look cute.

What these cultural arbiters fail to realize is that we're not doing it for them. We don't care if columnists think it's gross or lame or sad that teen girls give so many blowjobs or wear such skimpy clothing. I think I speak for teen girls everywhere when I say that it's Jake in Calculus we're trying to attract, not John Tierney. And Jake doesn't see things in the same way. He likes those skirts. Just like we like that he wears his wrestling uniform when he walks us home. That's how sex
works.

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