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Wednesday, September 28, 2005

Sexplorations: "Spitting, Swallowing and Some Other Secrets"

Go read Columbia Spectator columnist Miriam Dastovsky's new column on oral sex, "Spitting, Swallowing and Some Other Secrets" RIGHT NOW. She's dead honest, a great writer, lays it all on the line, and is a junior in college. I just discovered her column, and just met her, and after reading this one, I'm a fan. For sure. Another time I will deal with this, but I'm also with her on the not getting off on oral sex. And I'm not the only one. But her column is about a lot more than spitting or swallowing - it's about being honest, about saying things people might now want to hear, about just how subjective and personal all of sex, including oral sex, is. Seriously, read her column. I'm not saying you have to agree with all of it, but it's well-written, thoughtful, says something new and also addresses the culture at large, and is intensely personal. I'm gonna be reading her column from now on (and catching up on the old ones).

There is nothing not dirty about oral sex. It's someone’s penis in your mouth; it's your tongue inside someone’s pussy. Blow jobs. Eating out. Giving head. Gross.

And yet we love it. We love receiving it; we love giving it. Or maybe we love receiving it and we hate giving it. I’m an anomaly. I hate receiving it and I love giving it. I have never, ever gotten off from oral sex. I pride myself on giving good—no, amazing—head. But last night a guy started going down on me and I told him to stop. It just doesn’t work like that for me.


And this quote I dedicate to GirlyNYC:

Just don't think you're not a slut because you only give guys head and don’t fuck them.

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