Tell me about your panties!

Panty Party
Originally uploaded by joshbousel.

(See joshbousel's whole panty party photo set)

I'm doing a Village Voice column on "Panty Play for Men and Women" - basically, why are panties/underwear (including anything from boyshorts to jockstraps to crotchless panties to granny panties -
whatever turns you on, or no panties) sexy - do you wear particular
pairs when you know you have a date/to get yourself in the mood/to
show off by peeking out of your clothes? Which kinds are sexiest/not
sexiest? Do you do anything erotically with panties during sex - like
tease someone with them, tie someone up with them, etc.? Especially looking for crossdressers/people with a particular preference/fetish.

Also, if you don't wear underwear, or sometimes don't - why? How does that make you feel? The above questions are really just starting
points - I'm looking for all genders, all sexual orientations,
anything that's about panties/sex/lust, etc.. My wishlist of people to
talk to includes:

someone who sells their panties
a male crossdresser who wears women's panties/lingerie
someone who uses panties/underwear during sex
someone who only gets turned on when their partner is wearing a
particular kind of undies

I need answers to rachelkb at gmail.com by Sunday, July 9th at 4 pm EST. You can use a pseudonym (will be first names only), just let me know what name to use. Brief anecdotes, short answers, long stories - as long as it's about underwear and sex, I want to know. Thanks!